Jesus teaches: 'Take heed to yourselves: If thy brother trespass against thee, rebuke him; and if he repent, forgive him' (προσέχετε ἑαυτοῖς. ἐὰν ἁμάρτῃ ὁ ἀδελφός σου, ἐπιτίμησον αὐτῷ, καὶ ἐὰν μετανοήσῃ, ἄφες αὐτῷ). The command 'prosechō' (προσέχετε, take heed) warns of spiritual danger. The verb 'epitimaō' (ἐπιτίμησον, rebuke) means to confront or admonish, not merely overlook sin. Conditional forgiveness follows repentance (ἐὰν μετανοήσῃ, ἄφες, if he repents, forgive), balancing grace with accountability. This pattern reflects God's own forgiveness—He requires repentance, not unconditional tolerance of unrepented sin. Yet verse 4's extension (forgiving seven times daily) demonstrates grace's abundance.
Historical Context
Jewish teaching debated forgiveness limits. Rabbi Jose ben Hanina taught forgiving three times; Peter's suggestion of seven times (Matthew 18:21) seemed generous. Jesus' 'seventy times seven' (Matthew 18:22) or 'seven times in a day' (Luke 17:4) obliterates scorekeeping, demanding limitless forgiveness for genuine repentance. This teaching challenged both the Pharisees' harsh judgment and cultural honor/shame dynamics that demanded retaliation for offenses. Early Christian communities struggled to implement this radical ethic (Matthew 18:15-20, 1 Corinthians 5-6).
Questions for Reflection
How does biblical forgiveness differ from both harsh unforgiveness and uncritical tolerance of sin?
What does the balance between rebuke and forgiveness teach about combining truth and grace in Christian relationships?
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Analysis & Commentary
Jesus teaches: 'Take heed to yourselves: If thy brother trespass against thee, rebuke him; and if he repent, forgive him' (προσέχετε ἑαυτοῖς. ἐὰν ἁμάρτῃ ὁ ἀδελφός σου, ἐπιτίμησον αὐτῷ, καὶ ἐὰν μετανοήσῃ, ἄφες αὐτῷ). The command 'prosechō' (προσέχετε, take heed) warns of spiritual danger. The verb 'epitimaō' (ἐπιτίμησον, rebuke) means to confront or admonish, not merely overlook sin. Conditional forgiveness follows repentance (ἐὰν μετανοήσῃ, ἄφες, if he repents, forgive), balancing grace with accountability. This pattern reflects God's own forgiveness—He requires repentance, not unconditional tolerance of unrepented sin. Yet verse 4's extension (forgiving seven times daily) demonstrates grace's abundance.