Proverbs Chapter 29 · Verse 15
The rod and reproof give wisdom: but a child left to himself bringeth his mother to shame.
Original Language Analysis
שֵׁ֣בֶט
The rod
H7626
שֵׁ֣בֶט
The rod
Strong's:
H7626
Word #:
1 of 8
a scion, i.e., (literally) a stick (for punishing, writing, fighting, ruling, walking, etc.) or (figuratively) a clan
וְ֭תוֹכַחַת
and reproof
H8433
וְ֭תוֹכַחַת
and reproof
Strong's:
H8433
Word #:
2 of 8
chastisement; figuratively (by words) correction, refutation, proof (even in defense)
יִתֵּ֣ן
give
H5414
יִתֵּ֣ן
give
Strong's:
H5414
Word #:
3 of 8
to give, used with greatest latitude of application (put, make, etc.)
וְנַ֥עַר
but a child
H5288
וְנַ֥עַר
but a child
Strong's:
H5288
Word #:
5 of 8
(concretely) a boy (as active), from the age of infancy to adolescence; by implication, a servant; also (by interch. of sex), a girl (of similar latit
מְ֝שֻׁלָּ֗ח
left
H7971
מְ֝שֻׁלָּ֗ח
left
Strong's:
H7971
Word #:
6 of 8
to send away, for, or out (in a great variety of applications)
Cross References
Proverbs 17:25A foolish son is a grief to his father, and bitterness to her that bare him.Proverbs 29:17Correct thy son, and he shall give thee rest; yea, he shall give delight unto thy soul.Proverbs 10:1The proverbs of Solomon. A wise son maketh a glad father: but a foolish son is the heaviness of his mother.Proverbs 13:24He that spareth his rod hateth his son: but he that loveth him chasteneth him betimes.Proverbs 22:6Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it.Proverbs 17:21He that begetteth a fool doeth it to his sorrow: and the father of a fool hath no joy.Proverbs 22:15Foolishness is bound in the heart of a child; but the rod of correction shall drive it far from him.Proverbs 10:5He that gathereth in summer is a wise son: but he that sleepeth in harvest is a son that causeth shame.
Historical Context
Ancient Israelite parenting emphasized active formation through both physical discipline and verbal instruction (Deuteronomy 6:6-9). The family was the primary institution for transmitting covenant faith and wisdom. A child's behavior reflected on the entire family's honor. Eli's failure to restrain his wicked sons brought divine judgment (1 Samuel 2:22-36).
Questions for Reflection
- How do you balance the biblical mandate for discipline with contemporary concerns about child safety and dignity?
- What does it mean to discipline 'faithfully'—correcting out of love rather than anger or neglect?
- How does God's fatherly discipline in your life produce wisdom, and how do you respond to it?
Analysis & Commentary
The rod and reproof give wisdom (שֵׁבֶט וְתוֹכַחַת יִתֶּן־חָכְמָה)—physical discipline (shevet, rod/staff) combined with verbal correction (tokachat, rebuke/instruction) imparts wisdom (chokmah). Proverbs repeatedly endorses corporal discipline as loving correction (Proverbs 13:24, 22:15, 23:13-14). The goal isn't abuse but formation—shaping the will toward wisdom.
But a child left to himself bringeth his mother to shame (וְנַעַר מְשֻׁלָּח מֵבִישׁ אִמּוֹ)—a youth (naar) sent away/abandoned (meshullach, let loose, undisciplined) brings shame to his mother. Permissive parenting produces shameful outcomes. Hebrews 12:5-11 applies this to God's fatherly discipline of believers—painful but producing 'the peaceable fruit of righteousness.'