Psalms 131:2
Surely I have behaved and quieted myself, as a child that is weaned of his mother: my soul is even as a weaned child.
Original Language Analysis
אִם
H518
אִם
Strong's:
H518
Word #:
1 of 11
used very widely as demonstrative, lo!; interrogative, whether?; or conditional, if, although; also oh that!, when; hence, as a negative, not
לֹ֤א
H3808
לֹ֤א
Strong's:
H3808
Word #:
2 of 11
not (the simple or abs. negation); by implication, no; often used with other particles
שִׁוִּ֨יתִי׀
Surely I have behaved
H7737
שִׁוִּ֨יתִי׀
Surely I have behaved
Strong's:
H7737
Word #:
3 of 11
properly, to level, i.e., equalize; figuratively, to resemble; by implication, to adjust (i.e., counterbalance, be suitable, compose, place, yield, et
וְדוֹמַ֗מְתִּי
and quieted
H1826
וְדוֹמַ֗מְתִּי
and quieted
Strong's:
H1826
Word #:
4 of 11
to be dumb; by implication, to be astonished, to stop; also to perish
נַפְשִֽׁי׃
my soul
H5315
נַפְשִֽׁי׃
my soul
Strong's:
H5315
Word #:
5 of 11
properly, a breathing creature, i.e., animal of (abstractly) vitality; used very widely in a literal, accommodated or figurative sense (bodily or ment
כַּגָּמֻ֖ל
as a child that is weaned
H1580
כַּגָּמֻ֖ל
as a child that is weaned
Strong's:
H1580
Word #:
6 of 11
to treat a person (well or ill), i.e., benefit or requite; by implication (of toil), to ripen, i.e., (specifically) to wean
עֲלֵ֣י
H5921
עֲלֵ֣י
Strong's:
H5921
Word #:
7 of 11
above, over, upon, or against (yet always in this last relation with a downward aspect) in a great variety of applications
אִמּ֑וֹ
of his mother
H517
אִמּ֑וֹ
of his mother
Strong's:
H517
Word #:
8 of 11
a mother (as the bond of the family); in a wide sense (both literally and figuratively [like father])
כַּגָּמֻ֖ל
as a child that is weaned
H1580
כַּגָּמֻ֖ל
as a child that is weaned
Strong's:
H1580
Word #:
9 of 11
to treat a person (well or ill), i.e., benefit or requite; by implication (of toil), to ripen, i.e., (specifically) to wean
Cross References
1 Corinthians 14:20Brethren, be not children in understanding: howbeit in malice be ye children, but in understanding be men.Mark 10:15Verily I say unto you, Whosoever shall not receive the kingdom of God as a little child, he shall not enter therein.Psalms 43:5Why art thou cast down, O my soul? and why art thou disquieted within me? hope in God: for I shall yet praise him, who is the health of my countenance, and my God.Psalms 42:11Why art thou cast down, O my soul? and why art thou disquieted within me? hope thou in God: for I shall yet praise him, who is the health of my countenance, and my God.Luke 21:19In your patience possess ye your souls.Isaiah 30:15For thus saith the Lord GOD, the Holy One of Israel; In returning and rest shall ye be saved; in quietness and in confidence shall be your strength: and ye would not.Psalms 42:5Why art thou cast down, O my soul? and why art thou disquieted in me? hope thou in God: for I shall yet praise him for the help of his countenance.Psalms 62:1Truly my soul waiteth upon God: from him cometh my salvation.Lamentations 3:26It is good that a man should both hope and quietly wait for the salvation of the LORD.1 Samuel 30:6And David was greatly distressed; for the people spake of stoning him, because the soul of all the people was grieved, every man for his sons and for his daughters: but David encouraged himself in the LORD his God.
Historical Context
Weaning was significant transition in ancient Israel, often accompanied by celebration (Genesis 21:8). The metaphor would resonate powerfully with people familiar with nursing and weaning processes. The imagery of God as mother appears occasionally in Scripture (Isaiah 49:15; 66:13), complementing more frequent father imagery, emphasizing God's nurturing care.
Questions for Reflection
- What is the significance of a 'weaned' child rather than a nursing infant?
- How does the weaned child imagery illustrate mature trust versus immature demanding?
- What does it mean to 'behave and quiet' oneself - is this passive resignation or active cultivation?
- How does this verse contrast with worldly ambition and restless striving?
- In what ways do believers transition from nursing stage (demanding immediate gratification) to weaned stage (content rest in God's presence)?
Analysis & Commentary
The positive alternative to pride is described with tender imagery: 'Surely I have behaved and quieted myself, as a child that is weaned of his mother: my soul is even as a weaned child.' The word 'surely' (Hebrew) provides strong affirmation. The phrase 'behaved and quieted myself' describes intentional cultivation of peace and composure. 'Behaved' (Hebrew 'shavah') means to make level, smooth, equalize. 'Quieted' (damam) means to be silent, still, at rest. The comparison 'as a child that is weaned' uses infant imagery. A weaned child (typically 2-3 years old in ancient context) has transitioned from nursing to other food - no longer demanding, anxious, or fussing for breast. The weaned child rests contentedly on mother's lap without demanding nursing. Similarly, David's soul rests contentedly in God's presence without demanding or grasping. This pictures mature trust that has moved beyond immature demands to peaceful rest in God's provision and presence. The repetition 'my soul is even as a weaned child' emphasizes the comprehensive nature of this rest - the whole person is at peace.