Proverbs 15:1
A soft answer turneth away wrath: but grievous words stir up anger.
Original Language Analysis
רַּ֭ךְ
A soft
H7390
רַּ֭ךְ
A soft
Strong's:
H7390
Word #:
2 of 8
tender (literally or figuratively); by implication, weak
יָשִׁ֣יב
turneth
H7725
יָשִׁ֣יב
turneth
Strong's:
H7725
Word #:
3 of 8
to turn back (hence, away) transitively or intransitively, literally or figuratively (not necessarily with the idea of return to the starting point);
וּדְבַר
words
H1697
וּדְבַר
words
Strong's:
H1697
Word #:
5 of 8
a word; by implication, a matter (as spoken of) or thing; adverbially, a cause
עֶ֝֗צֶב
but grievous
H6089
עֶ֝֗צֶב
but grievous
Strong's:
H6089
Word #:
6 of 8
an earthen vessel; usually (painful) toil; also a pang (whether of body or mind)
Cross References
Proverbs 25:15By long forbearing is a prince persuaded, and a soft tongue breaketh the bone.Proverbs 10:12Hatred stirreth up strifes: but love covereth all sins.Proverbs 15:18A wrathful man stirreth up strife: but he that is slow to anger appeaseth strife.Proverbs 29:22An angry man stirreth up strife, and a furious man aboundeth in transgression.Proverbs 28:25He that is of a proud heart stirreth up strife: but he that putteth his trust in the LORD shall be made fat.
Historical Context
In honor-shame cultures like ancient Israel, perceived insults demanded response to preserve honor. This proverb offered counter-cultural wisdom: de-escalation through gentle speech rather than escalation through defending honor.
Questions for Reflection
- When facing anger or criticism, is your first instinct to defend yourself or respond gently?
- How might 'soft answers' transform your most difficult relationships?
Analysis & Commentary
The Hebrew 'rak' (soft, gentle) answer has power to 'turn away' (Hebrew 'shuv'—cause to return, avert) wrath, demonstrating wisdom's transformative effect on conflict. The contrast between soft answers and 'grievous' (Hebrew 'etseb'—painful, hurtful) words shows that tone and manner are as important as content. This proverb reveals that self-control in speech reflects godly wisdom and prevents the escalation of anger.