Proverbs 20:19
He that goeth about as a talebearer revealeth secrets: therefore meddle not with him that flattereth with his lips.
Original Language Analysis
גּֽוֹלֶה
revealeth
H1540
גּֽוֹלֶה
revealeth
Strong's:
H1540
Word #:
1 of 8
to denude (especially in a disgraceful sense); by implication, to exile (captives being usually stripped); figuratively, to reveal
סּ֭וֹד
secrets
H5475
סּ֭וֹד
secrets
Strong's:
H5475
Word #:
2 of 8
a session, i.e., company of persons (in close deliberation); by implication, intimacy, consultation, a secret
הוֹלֵ֣ךְ
He that goeth about
H1980
הוֹלֵ֣ךְ
He that goeth about
Strong's:
H1980
Word #:
3 of 8
to walk (in a great variety of applications, literally and figuratively)
וּלְפֹתֶ֥ה
not with him that flattereth
H6601
וּלְפֹתֶ֥ה
not with him that flattereth
Strong's:
H6601
Word #:
5 of 8
to open, i.e., be (causatively, make) roomy; usually figuratively (in a mental or moral sense) to be (causatively, make) simple or (in a sinister way)
שְׂ֝פָתָ֗יו
with his lips
H8193
שְׂ֝פָתָ֗יו
with his lips
Strong's:
H8193
Word #:
6 of 8
the lip (as a natural boundary); by implication, language; by analogy, a margin (of a vessel, water, cloth, etc.)
Cross References
Proverbs 11:13A talebearer revealeth secrets: but he that is of a faithful spirit concealeth the matter.Proverbs 18:8The words of a talebearer are as wounds, and they go down into the innermost parts of the belly.Proverbs 13:3He that keepeth his mouth keepeth his life: but he that openeth wide his lips shall have destruction.Romans 16:18For they that are such serve not our Lord Jesus Christ, but their own belly; and by good words and fair speeches deceive the hearts of the simple.Leviticus 19:16Thou shalt not go up and down as a talebearer among thy people: neither shalt thou stand against the blood of thy neighbour: I am the LORD.Proverbs 24:21My son, fear thou the LORD and the king: and meddle not with them that are given to change:Proverbs 16:29A violent man enticeth his neighbour, and leadeth him into the way that is not good.
Historical Context
In close-knit ancient communities, gossip could destroy reputations and social standing. The law's prohibition against slander (Leviticus 19:16) recognized speech's power to harm.
Questions for Reflection
- Do you guard confidences faithfully, or are you prone to sharing others' private matters?
- What relationships might you need to distance from due to patterns of gossip?
Analysis & Commentary
The 'talebearer' (Hebrew 'rachil,' one who goes about spreading gossip) reveals secrets and sows discord. Such a person cannot be trusted; they will expose confidences for entertainment or manipulation. Therefore, 'meddle not'—avoid close association with gossips. This protects both your secrets and your soul from the corrupting influence of slander. Gossip violates love of neighbor and often constitutes bearing false witness. It destroys reputations, fractures relationships, and dishonors God. The godly person guards confidences, speaks truth in love, and refuses to participate in destructive speech. Wise friendship requires discretion and trustworthiness.