Genesis 29:14

Authorized King James Version

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And Laban said to him, Surely thou art my bone and my flesh. And he abode with him the space of a month.

Original Language Analysis

וַיֹּ֤אמֶר said H559
וַיֹּ֤אמֶר said
Strong's: H559
Word #: 1 of 11
to say (used with great latitude)
לוֹ֙ H0
לוֹ֙
Strong's: H0
Word #: 2 of 11
לָבָ֔ן And Laban H3837
לָבָ֔ן And Laban
Strong's: H3837
Word #: 3 of 11
laban, a place in the desert
אַ֛ךְ to him Surely H389
אַ֛ךְ to him Surely
Strong's: H389
Word #: 4 of 11
a particle of affirmation, surely; hence (by limitation) only
עַצְמִ֥י thou art my bone H6106
עַצְמִ֥י thou art my bone
Strong's: H6106
Word #: 5 of 11
a bone (as strong); by extension, the body; figuratively, the substance, i.e., (as pron.) selfsame
וּבְשָׂרִ֖י and my flesh H1320
וּבְשָׂרִ֖י and my flesh
Strong's: H1320
Word #: 6 of 11
flesh (from its freshness); by extension, body, person; also (by euphemistically) the pudenda of a man
אָ֑תָּה H859
אָ֑תָּה
Strong's: H859
Word #: 7 of 11
thou and thee, or (plural) ye and you
וַיֵּ֥שֶׁב And he abode H3427
וַיֵּ֥שֶׁב And he abode
Strong's: H3427
Word #: 8 of 11
properly, to sit down (specifically as judge. in ambush, in quiet); by implication, to dwell, to remain; causatively, to settle, to marry
עִמּ֖וֹ H5973
עִמּ֖וֹ
Strong's: H5973
Word #: 9 of 11
adverb or preposition, with (i.e., in conjunction with), in varied applications; specifically, equally with; often with prepositional prefix (and then
חֹ֥דֶשׁ of a month H2320
חֹ֥דֶשׁ of a month
Strong's: H2320
Word #: 10 of 11
the new moon; by implication, a month
יָמִֽים׃ with him the space H3117
יָמִֽים׃ with him the space
Strong's: H3117
Word #: 11 of 11
a day (as the warm hours), whether literal (from sunrise to sunset, or from one sunset to the next), or figurative (a space of time defined by an asso

Analysis & Commentary

And Laban said to him, Surely thou art my bone and my flesh. And he abode with him the space of a mo... This passage belongs to the Jacob narratives which demonstrate God's sovereign election overriding human merit and the transformation of a deceiver into Israel, the father of the twelve tribes. The Jacob cycle shows how divine purposes advance through flawed individuals whom God graciously transforms.

Key themes include God's sovereign choice ("the older shall serve the younger"), the consequences of deception and family dysfunction, exile and return patterns, wrestling with God leading to blessing, and covenant renewal across generations. Jacob's character development from manipulative deceiver to mature patriarch demonstrates sanctification's lifelong process.

Theologically significant aspects include:

  1. divine election based on grace not merit (Romans 9:10-13)
  2. God's faithfulness to covenant promises despite human unfaithfulness
  3. discipline as evidence of divine love and means of transformation
  4. generational patterns of sin requiring divine intervention to break
  5. prayer and wrestling with God as legitimate expressions of faith.

Jacob's limp after wrestling God symbolizes how divine encounters leave permanent marks, transforming our approach to life and dependence on God rather than our own cunning.

Historical Context

The patriarchal narratives (Genesis 12-50) reflect the cultural, social, and legal customs of the ancient Near East during the Middle Bronze Age (2000-1500 BCE). Archaeological discoveries including the Mari tablets, Nuzi tablets, and Egyptian records confirm many details: nomadic pastoralism, covenant-making ceremonies, marriage customs, property laws, and international travel patterns described in Genesis.

The cultural practices reflected include: treaty/covenant forms (Genesis 15), bride-price customs (Genesis 24, 29), inheritance laws favoring firstborn sons (Genesis 25, 27), adoption practices (Genesis 15, 30), levirate-type arrangements (Genesis 38), and Egyptian administrative systems (Genesis 41, 47). These parallels confirm Genesis's historical reliability while showing how God worked within ancient cultural frameworks to accomplish His purposes.

For later Israelites, these narratives established their identity as Abraham's descendants, explained their claim to Canaan, justified their possession of Joseph's bones (Exodus 13:19), and provided models of faith despite imperfection. The patriarchs' failures and God's faithfulness encouraged Israel that covenant relationship depended on God's grace rather than human merit. The movement from Mesopotamia to Canaan to Egypt set the stage for the Exodus and conquest narratives.

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