Proverbs 20:19
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Proverbs 20:19
19 He that goeth about as a talebearer revealeth secrets: therefore meddle not with him that flattereth with his lips.
Chapter Context
Proverbs 20 is a wisdom sayings chapter in the Old Testament that explores themes of truth, mercy, redemption. Written during primarily Solomon's reign (c. 970-930 BCE), this chapter should be understood within its historical context: Ancient Near Eastern wisdom literature was common in royal courts for training officials.
The chapter can be divided into several sections:
- Verses 1-5: Introduction and setting the context
- Verses 6-12: Development of key themes
- Verses 13-20: Central message and teachings
- Verses 21-30: Conclusion and application
This chapter is significant because it demonstrates God's faithfulness despite human unfaithfulness. When studying this passage, it's important to consider both its immediate context within Proverbs and its broader place in the scriptural canon.
Verse Study
Proverbs 20:19
19 He that goeth about as a talebearer revealeth secrets: therefore meddle not with him that flattereth with his lips.
Analysis
The 'talebearer' (Hebrew 'rachil,' one who goes about spreading gossip) reveals secrets and sows discord. Such a person cannot be trusted; they will expose confidences for entertainment or manipulation. Therefore, 'meddle not'—avoid close association with gossips. This protects both your secrets and your soul from the corrupting influence of slander. Gossip violates love of neighbor and often constitutes bearing false witness. It destroys reputations, fractures relationships, and dishonors God. The godly person guards confidences, speaks truth in love, and refuses to participate in destructive speech. Wise friendship requires discretion and trustworthiness.
Historical Context
In close-knit ancient communities, gossip could destroy reputations and social standing. The law's prohibition against slander (Leviticus 19:16) recognized speech's power to harm.
Reflection
- Do you guard confidences faithfully, or are you prone to sharing others' private matters?
- What relationships might you need to distance from due to patterns of gossip?
Cross-References
- Parallel theme: Proverbs 11:13, 13:3, 16:29, 18:8, 24:21, Leviticus 19:16