Proverbs 31:28
Her children arise up, and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praiseth her.
Original Language Analysis
קָ֣מוּ
arise up
H6965
קָ֣מוּ
arise up
Strong's:
H6965
Word #:
1 of 5
to rise (in various applications, literal, figurative, intensive and causative)
בָ֭נֶיהָ
Her children
H1121
בָ֭נֶיהָ
Her children
Strong's:
H1121
Word #:
2 of 5
a son (as a builder of the family name), in the widest sense (of literal and figurative relationship, including grandson, subject, nation, quality or
וַֽיְאַשְּׁר֑וּהָ
and call her blessed
H833
וַֽיְאַשְּׁר֑וּהָ
and call her blessed
Strong's:
H833
Word #:
3 of 5
to be straight (used in the widest sense, especially to be level, right, happy); figuratively, to go forward, be honest, prosper
Historical Context
In ancient honor-shame cultures, public recognition by one's family carried immense significance. Children honoring parents fulfilled the Fifth Commandment (Exodus 20:12), and a husband praising his wife publicly affirmed her worth to the community. Such praise testified to her character's observable fruit over many years.
Questions for Reflection
- What kind of legacy are you building with those closest to you—will they 'arise and call you blessed'?
- How does Proverbs' vision of earned respect challenge both authoritarian demands for honor and modern neglect of it?
- In what practical ways might you honor those whose faithful character has blessed your life?
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Analysis & Commentary
Her children arise up, and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praiseth her—The ק (qoph) line reveals the fruit of the eshet chayil's labor: spontaneous honor from her family. Qamu (arise) suggests public declaration, not private sentiment—her children openly proclaim her blessed (asher, happy/fortunate). The husband's praise (vayhalelah, from halal, to praise/shine) echoes worship language, though here directed toward worthy human character.
This verse shows that genuine character cannot be hidden—it produces visible, lasting fruit. The blessing isn't forced deference but genuine gratitude from those who know her best. Proverbs envisions familial honor flowing from earned respect, not demanded submission. Her children and husband praise her because her wisdom, diligence, and kindness have blessed their lives tangibly. This is covenant relationship at its finest—mutual honor rooted in faithful love.