Proverbs 4:3
For I was my father's son, tender and only beloved in the sight of my mother.
Original Language Analysis
כִּי
H3588
כִּי
Strong's:
H3588
Word #:
1 of 8
(by implication) very widely used as a relative conjunction or adverb (as below); often largely modified by other particles annexed
בֵ֭ן
son
H1121
בֵ֭ן
son
Strong's:
H1121
Word #:
2 of 8
a son (as a builder of the family name), in the widest sense (of literal and figurative relationship, including grandson, subject, nation, quality or
הָיִ֣יתִי
H1961
הָיִ֣יתִי
Strong's:
H1961
Word #:
3 of 8
to exist, i.e., be or become, come to pass (always emphatic, and not a mere copula or auxiliary)
לְאָבִ֑י
For I was my father's
H1
לְאָבִ֑י
For I was my father's
Strong's:
H1
Word #:
4 of 8
father, in a literal and immediate, or figurative and remote application
רַ֥ךְ
tender
H7390
רַ֥ךְ
tender
Strong's:
H7390
Word #:
5 of 8
tender (literally or figuratively); by implication, weak
וְ֝יָחִ֗יד
and only
H3173
וְ֝יָחִ֗יד
and only
Strong's:
H3173
Word #:
6 of 8
properly, united, i.e., sole; by implication, beloved; also lonely; (feminine) the life (as not to be replaced)
Cross References
1 Chronicles 22:5And David said, Solomon my son is young and tender, and the house that is to be builded for the LORD must be exceeding magnifical, of fame and of glory throughout all countries: I will therefore now make preparation for it. So David prepared abundantly before his death.Romans 12:16Be of the same mind one toward another. Mind not high things, but condescend to men of low estate. Be not wise in your own conceits.1 Chronicles 29:1Furthermore David the king said unto all the congregation, Solomon my son, whom alone God hath chosen, is yet young and tender, and the work is great: for the palace is not for man, but for the LORD God.
Historical Context
David's charge to Solomon is recorded in 1 Kings 2:1-9, emphasizing faithfulness to God's law. Despite David's moral failures (Bathsheba, Uriah), he transmitted godly wisdom to his son. This illustrates that imperfect parents can still pass on divine truth when centered on God's Word rather than personal example alone.
Questions for Reflection
- How does being 'tender and only' in your father's sight affect your receptivity to wisdom?
- What wisdom have you received from imperfect but faithful teachers?
- How can parents transmit godly wisdom even when aware of their own failures?
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Analysis & Commentary
Solomon identifies himself as his father's (David's) son, tender and beloved. The Hebrew 'rak' (tender/delicate) and 'yachid' (only one/beloved) describe parental affection and careful nurture. This personal testimony grounds wisdom transmission in family relationships characterized by love. Good teaching flows from loving relationships, not merely formal instruction. The fact that wisdom came through David (a man after God's own heart despite failures) demonstrates that wisdom transcends personal perfection.