When men strive together one with another, and the wife of the one draweth near for to deliver her husband out of the hand of him that smiteth him, and putteth forth her hand, and taketh him by the secrets:
When men strive together one with another, and the wife of the one draweth near for to deliver her husband—describing a wife intervening in a fight to protect her husband. And putteth forth her hand, and taketh him by the secrets—the Hebrew machazah bim-bushaiv (הֶחֱזִיקָה בִּמְבֻשָׁיו) literally means 'seizes his shameful parts,' referring to grabbing the genitals of her husband's attacker. This was both extreme violation of modesty and tactical assault aimed at causing pain and humiliation.
The specificity of this law suggests it addressed an actual problem, not hypothetical cases. Grabbing genitals in combat was evidently common enough to require explicit prohibition. The severity of response (verse 12) indicates this was considered particularly shameful and dangerous—threatening another man's ability to father children struck at family continuity and dignity in ways other injuries didn't.
Historical Context
Given circa 1406 BC as part of the detailed case laws regulating community life. Physical fights between men were evidently common (see Exodus 21:18-19, 22-25 for other fight scenarios). The law presumes close-quarters village life where private disputes escalated publicly. The emphasis on protecting male genitals reflects ancient Near Eastern concern for procreative ability—damage here could render a man unable to fulfill his primary social role as father and provider.
Questions for Reflection
Why does this seemingly bizarre law appear in Scripture? What does specificity reveal about biblical law's practical nature?
How does the law balance the wife's protective instinct with prohibitions against immodest or excessive violence?
What principles govern legitimate self-defense or defense of others versus actions that go too far?
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Analysis & Commentary
When men strive together one with another, and the wife of the one draweth near for to deliver her husband—describing a wife intervening in a fight to protect her husband. And putteth forth her hand, and taketh him by the secrets—the Hebrew machazah bim-bushaiv (הֶחֱזִיקָה בִּמְבֻשָׁיו) literally means 'seizes his shameful parts,' referring to grabbing the genitals of her husband's attacker. This was both extreme violation of modesty and tactical assault aimed at causing pain and humiliation.
The specificity of this law suggests it addressed an actual problem, not hypothetical cases. Grabbing genitals in combat was evidently common enough to require explicit prohibition. The severity of response (verse 12) indicates this was considered particularly shameful and dangerous—threatening another man's ability to father children struck at family continuity and dignity in ways other injuries didn't.