Ecclesiastes 7:21
Also take no heed unto all words that are spoken; lest thou hear thy servant curse thee:
Original Language Analysis
גַּ֤ם
H1571
גַּ֤ם
Strong's:
H1571
Word #:
1 of 14
properly, assemblage; used only adverbially also, even, yea, though; often repeated as correl. both...and
לְכָל
H3605
לְכָל
Strong's:
H3605
Word #:
2 of 14
properly, the whole; hence, all, any or every (in the singular only, but often in a plural sense)
הַדְּבָרִים֙
unto all words
H1697
הַדְּבָרִים֙
unto all words
Strong's:
H1697
Word #:
3 of 14
a word; by implication, a matter (as spoken of) or thing; adverbially, a cause
אֲשֶׁ֣ר
H834
אֲשֶׁ֣ר
Strong's:
H834
Word #:
4 of 14
who, which, what, that; also (as an adverb and a conjunction) when, where, how, because, in order that, etc
יְדַבֵּ֔רוּ
that are spoken
H1696
יְדַבֵּ֔רוּ
that are spoken
Strong's:
H1696
Word #:
5 of 14
perhaps properly, to arrange; but used figuratively (of words), to speak; rarely (in a destructive sense) to subdue
אַל
H408
אַל
Strong's:
H408
Word #:
6 of 14
not (the qualified negation, used as a deprecative); once (job 24:25) as a noun, nothing
תִּתֵּ֖ן
Also take
H5414
תִּתֵּ֖ן
Also take
Strong's:
H5414
Word #:
7 of 14
to give, used with greatest latitude of application (put, make, etc.)
לִבֶּ֑ךָ
no heed
H3820
לִבֶּ֑ךָ
no heed
Strong's:
H3820
Word #:
8 of 14
the heart; also used (figuratively) very widely for the feelings, the will and even the intellect; likewise for the center of anything
אֲשֶׁ֥ר
H834
אֲשֶׁ֥ר
Strong's:
H834
Word #:
9 of 14
who, which, what, that; also (as an adverb and a conjunction) when, where, how, because, in order that, etc
לֹֽא
H3808
לֹֽא
Strong's:
H3808
Word #:
10 of 14
not (the simple or abs. negation); by implication, no; often used with other particles
תִשְׁמַ֥ע
lest thou hear
H8085
תִשְׁמַ֥ע
lest thou hear
Strong's:
H8085
Word #:
11 of 14
to hear intelligently (often with implication of attention, obedience, etc.; causatively, to tell, etc.)
Cross References
Isaiah 29:21That make a man an offender for a word, and lay a snare for him that reproveth in the gate, and turn aside the just for a thing of nought.Proverbs 30:10Accuse not a servant unto his master, lest he curse thee, and thou be found guilty.2 Samuel 16:10And the king said, What have I to do with you, ye sons of Zeruiah? so let him curse, because the LORD hath said unto him, Curse David. Who shall then say, Wherefore hast thou done so?
Historical Context
Ancient Near Eastern households included servants/slaves who naturally harbored resentments about their status. Masters who obsessively monitored servants' private conversations created toxic environments of fear and mutual suspicion.
Questions for Reflection
- How might obsessive concern about what others say about you be stealing your peace and freedom?
- In what ways does 'taking heed to all words spoken' reveal insecurity rather than wisdom?
- What legitimate criticism should you hear versus illegitimate words you should release?
Analysis & Commentary
Also take no heed unto all words that are spoken (גַּם אֶל־כָּל־הַדְּבָרִים אֲשֶׁר יְדַבֵּרוּ אַל־תִּתֵּן לִבֶּךָ, gam el-kol-had'varim asher yedabberu al-titten libekha)—literally 'do not give your heart to all the words that they speak.' The verb titten libekha means to set your heart/attention on something. Lest thou hear thy servant curse thee (אֲשֶׁר לֹא־תִשְׁמַע אֶת־עַבְדְּךָ מְקַלְלֶךָ, asher lo-tishma et-avdekha mekalelekha)—lest you hear your servant reviling/belittling you.
Qoheleth offers remarkably practical wisdom about emotional self-protection: don't monitor all conversations, or you'll inevitably hear yourself criticized. The specific example—your own eved (servant) cursing you—cuts deep because it comes from someone under your authority and receiving your provision. The wisdom isn't promoting willful ignorance but recognizing that obsessive attention to others' opinions breeds unnecessary pain. Jesus faced constant criticism yet 'when he was reviled, he did not revile in return' (1 Peter 2:23). Proverbs 26:17 similarly warns against meddling in others' quarrels. There's freedom in not needing to hear and respond to every critique.