2 Samuel 13:4

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And he said unto him, Why art thou, being the king's son, lean from day to day? wilt thou not tell me? And Amnon said unto him, I love Tamar, my brother Absalom's sister.

Original Language Analysis

וַיֹּ֤אמֶר And he said H559
וַיֹּ֤אמֶר And he said
Strong's: H559
Word #: 1 of 23
to say (used with great latitude)
ל֗וֹ H0
ל֗וֹ
Strong's: H0
Word #: 2 of 23
מַדּ֣וּעַ H4069
מַדּ֣וּעַ
Strong's: H4069
Word #: 3 of 23
what (is) known?; i.e., (by implication) (adverbially) why?
אַ֠תָּה H859
אַ֠תָּה
Strong's: H859
Word #: 4 of 23
thou and thee, or (plural) ye and you
כָּ֣כָה H3602
כָּ֣כָה
Strong's: H3602
Word #: 5 of 23
just so, referring to the previous or following context
דַּ֤ל lean H1800
דַּ֤ל lean
Strong's: H1800
Word #: 6 of 23
properly, dangling, i.e., (by implication) weak or thin
בֶּן son H1121
בֶּן son
Strong's: H1121
Word #: 7 of 23
a son (as a builder of the family name), in the widest sense (of literal and figurative relationship, including grandson, subject, nation, quality or
הַמֶּ֙לֶךְ֙ unto him Why art thou being the king's H4428
הַמֶּ֙לֶךְ֙ unto him Why art thou being the king's
Strong's: H4428
Word #: 8 of 23
a king
בַּבֹּ֔קֶר from day H1242
בַּבֹּ֔קֶר from day
Strong's: H1242
Word #: 9 of 23
properly, dawn (as the break of day); generally, morning
בַּבֹּ֔קֶר from day H1242
בַּבֹּ֔קֶר from day
Strong's: H1242
Word #: 10 of 23
properly, dawn (as the break of day); generally, morning
הֲל֖וֹא H3808
הֲל֖וֹא
Strong's: H3808
Word #: 11 of 23
not (the simple or abs. negation); by implication, no; often used with other particles
תַּגִּ֣יד wilt thou not tell H5046
תַּגִּ֣יד wilt thou not tell
Strong's: H5046
Word #: 12 of 23
properly, to front, i.e., stand boldly out opposite; by implication (causatively), to manifest; figuratively, to announce (always by word of mouth to
לִ֑י H0
לִ֑י
Strong's: H0
Word #: 13 of 23
וַיֹּ֤אמֶר And he said H559
וַיֹּ֤אמֶר And he said
Strong's: H559
Word #: 14 of 23
to say (used with great latitude)
לוֹ֙ H0
לוֹ֙
Strong's: H0
Word #: 15 of 23
אַמְנ֔וֹן me And Amnon H550
אַמְנ֔וֹן me And Amnon
Strong's: H550
Word #: 16 of 23
amnon (or aminon), a son of david
אֶת H853
אֶת
Strong's: H853
Word #: 17 of 23
properly, self (but generally used to point out more definitely the object of a verb or preposition, even or namely)
תָּמָ֗ר Tamar H8559
תָּמָ֗ר Tamar
Strong's: H8559
Word #: 18 of 23
tamar, the name of three women and a place
אֲח֛וֹת sister H269
אֲח֛וֹת sister
Strong's: H269
Word #: 19 of 23
a sister (used very widely [like h0251], literally and figuratively)
אַבְשָׁלֹ֥ם Absalom's H53
אַבְשָׁלֹ֥ם Absalom's
Strong's: H53
Word #: 20 of 23
abshalom, a son of david; also (the fuller form) a later israelite
אָחִ֖י my brother H251
אָחִ֖י my brother
Strong's: H251
Word #: 21 of 23
a brother (used in the widest sense of literal relationship and metaphorical affinity or resemblance [like h0001])
אֲנִ֥י H589
אֲנִ֥י
Strong's: H589
Word #: 22 of 23
i
אֹהֵֽב׃ unto him I love H157
אֹהֵֽב׃ unto him I love
Strong's: H157
Word #: 23 of 23
to have affection for (sexually or otherwise)

Analysis & Commentary

And he said unto him, Why art thou, being the king's son, lean from day to day? wilt thou not tell me? And Amnon said unto him, I love Tamar, my brother Absalom's sister.

This verse contributes to the narrative of Amnon and Tamar, emphasizing unresolved sin, family breakdown. Amnon's rape of Tamar and Absalom's revenge illustrate how unresolved sin metastasizes into family-wide dysfunction. David's failure to discipline Amnon (possibly from guilt over his own sexual sin) enabled further tragedy. Hebrew terminology emphasizes Tamar's desolation and Absalom's calculated hatred. The narrative demonstrates intergenerational sin consequences and the necessity of proper justice administration.

Historical Context

The historical setting of 2 Samuel 13 occurs during David's reign (circa 1010-970 BCE) over Israel's united monarchy. Archaeological discoveries, including the Tel Dan inscription mentioning the 'House of David,' corroborate biblical historicity. Ancient Near Eastern customs regarding unresolved sin, family breakdown provide crucial background. The geopolitical situation involved regional powers—Philistines, Ammonites, Arameans, Moabites, Edomites—as David consolidated and expanded Israel's territory. Cultural practices concerning kingship, warfare, covenant relationships, family dynamics, and religious observance differed significantly from modern Western contexts, requiring careful attention to avoid anachronistic interpretation while extracting timeless theological principles applicable across cultures and eras.

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